The Evolution of Recruitment Recruitment processes, once rigid and formulaic, are undergoing a significant transformation. I've seen firsthand the limitations of relying solely on psychometric tests that neglect the value of intuition. In one instance, I was deemed unsuitable for a role based on an assessment that misrepresented my conflict resolution skills. The candidate they chose struggled, and I was eventually brought in to help. This outdated mindset no longer serves us. Trusting your intuition in hiring can lead to greater success. Those confined by traditional, black-and-white thinking often overanalyse, which can create unnecessary conflict. The key is to trust your instincts and make decisions that resonate with your values and vision. ​

Business leaders are waking up to a vital truth: a holistic approach is key to authentic success. While "transparency" is a buzzword, many struggle to understand its true essence. A transformative shift is happening. Companies are realising that genuine success stems from understanding individual strengths, values, and the intuitive bonds within teams. It all begins with commitment—to yourself, your vision, and your people. The Power of Conscious Leadership Micromanagement and distrust create conflict, while conscious leaders foster trust, open communication, and shared goals. In such environments, success naturally follows.
The Heart-Centric Model In today’s landscape, compassion and empathy are essential. The age of disconnected corporations is ending. If your organisation lacks a true connection to its purpose and the well-being of its people, it’s time for a change. Redefining Success -Real success transcends profits; it thrives in a culture that values care and connection. As the business world evolves, those who ignore the human element risk being left behind.
Embrace conscious leadership, nurture trust, and watch your business flourish! Brigid Curran

by Brigid Curran.

 The notion of self-love and its profound healing powers transcends generational boundaries, resonating deeply with individuals across all ages, especially those navigating the complexities of today's world. While once thought to be a concern primarily for those born in the 60s and 70s, the reality is starkly different. Today, we face a community grappling with profound inner struggles rooted in their own belief systems. 
Reflecting on the timeless adage, "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me," let's confront its fallacy. Originating in a speech by E.H. Heywood in 1862, it portrayed a sentiment aimed at resilience, yet belied the truth that words possess an immense power to wound. Maya Angelou, in her poem "Still I Rise," encapsulated this truth poignantly: "You may shoot me with your words, you may cut me with your eyes, you may kill me with your hatefulness, but still, like air, I’ll rise." Wouldn't it be wonderful to have this inner power to rise above the internal wounds?
Today, the journey towards self-love becomes an essential antidote to this pain. It goes beyond mere self-esteem,  it is a profound act of embracing oneself fully—flaws, scars, and all. Self-love is the balm that soothes the wounds inflicted by harsh words and unmet expectations. It is the foundation upon which resilience is built, where one finds the strength to rise above adversity. How can you rise?

In practicing self-love, you cultivate a nurturing relationship with yourself.  You learn to acknowledge your worthiness, independent of external validation or criticism. This inner dialogue becomes a sanctuary, fostering growth, and healing. It enables you to set boundaries that protect your emotional well-being and to pursue paths that align with your truest self.  When you seek validation or love from others to feel more significant, it often ends up making you feel inadequate. The effort to make someone love you can backfire, pushing them further away. You may internalise this rejection, blaming yourself and wondering where you went wrong, but it's crucial to realise it's not your fault.

If your intention is to love genuinely and it's not reciprocated, it's important to recognise that the other person may not be deserving of your love. Fully embracing self-love means owning your worth and understanding that it's not about becoming more for someone else but about complementing a relationship—whether it's romantic or otherwise.

By prioritising self-love and acceptance, you cultivate a solid foundation within yourself. This allows you to enter relationships from a place of strength and authenticity, rather than seeking validation externally. It empowers you to contribute positively to relationships, knowing that your worthiness comes from within, independent of others' opinions or actions.

Furthermore, self-love radiates outward, influencing relationships and communities. It promotes empathy and compassion, as individuals who value themselves are more inclined to extend kindness to others. It becomes a catalyst for collective healing, challenging societal norms that perpetuate self-doubt and insecurity.

Ultimately, the journey of self-love is not one of vanity or selfishness but a profound act of self-preservation and empowerment. It is a transformative force that allows individuals to reclaim their narratives and rewrite stories of resilience and hope. As we continue to navigate the complexities of our modern world, let us embrace the healing powers of self-love, recognising it as a fundamental right and a beacon of light amidst the darkness.

In summary, Maya Angelou's poignant poem "Still I Rise" powerfully captures the enduring impact of words, emphasising how they can wound deeply and linger in the psyche, triggering emotional responses with lasting consequences. Echoing the sentiment of the Bee Gees' song "Words," which reflects on the power and weight of words in shaping emotions and relationships, the message underscores that words, despite their intangibility, hold immense power to both uplift and harm, shaping personal narratives and interactions in profound ways. (It's only words, and words are all I have To take your heart away- Bee Gees Words)

#SelfLove #InnerStrength #Authenticity #KnowYourWorth #LoveYourselfFirst #NoValidationNeeded #Relationships #SelfAcceptance #OwnYourPower #EmbraceYourself   #mayaangelou #beegees #words

"She sat at the back and they said she was shy,
She led from the front and they hated her pride,
They asked her advice and then questioned her guidance,
They branded her loud, then were shocked by her silence,
When she shared no ambition they said it was sad,
So she told them her dreams and they said she was mad,
They told her they'd listen, then covered their ears,
And gave her a hug while they laughed at her fears,
And she listened to all of it thinking she should,
Be the girl they told her to be best as she could,
But one day she asked what was best for herself,
Instead of trying to please everyone else,
So she walked to the forest and stood with the trees,
She heard the wind whisper and dance with the leaves,
She spoke to the willow, the elm and the pine,
And she told them what she'd been told time after time,
She told them she felt she was never enough,
She was either too little or far far too much,
Too loud or too quiet, too fierce or too weak,
Too wise or too foolish, too bold or too meek,
Then she found a small clearing surrounded by firs,
And she stopped...and she heard what the trees said to her,
And she sat there for hours not wanting to leave,
For the forest said nothing, it just let her breathe"

#breathe #love #calm #love #relationships 

Dating can be a complex journey for anyone, but for empaths, it often comes with unique challenges and insights. As someone who feels emotions deeply and is highly intuitive, finding love as an empath requires navigating a path filled with both self-discovery and potential pitfalls. Here's what I've learned from my own experiences.

  The Challenge of Connection

One of the first things I realised was how easy it is to connect with people. As an empath, you naturally pick up on others' emotions and energies, which can create an immediate sense of intimacy. However, this can also lead to self-doubt. You might find yourself questioning whether you're good enough or whether your feelings are truly reciprocated. This self-doubt can be amplified in the world of online dating.

  The Pitfalls of Online Dating

While online dating can offer a convenient way to meet new people, it may not be the best route for empaths. The lack of physical presence can make it harder to pick up on the subtle cues that you rely on to gauge authenticity and intention. Finding people organically, through shared interests or social circles, can lead to more genuine connections. 

  Embracing Your True Self

For empaths, it's crucial to know and accept yourself. Your traits are not flaws but gifts that allow you to connect deeply with others. However, these traits can also impair your discernment, making it difficult to identify manipulation or desperation in others. If you find yourself repeatedly encountering similar negative patterns in relationships, it may be a sign that your empathy is being taken advantage of.

  Recognising Narcissistic Traits

Narcissists are often drawn to empaths because of their sensitivity and ability to give. Narcissists may take pleasure in causing pain, leaving you feeling terrible about yourself. It's important to remember that this isn't a reflection of your worth. Recognising these patterns can help you avoid falling into the trap of trying to fix someone who thrives on conflict and manipulation.

  Building Healthy Relationships

A healthy relationship for an empath involves meeting someone who respects and values your empathetic nature. Look for partners who don't shy away from conflict but are willing to work through issues with you. Allow relationships to unfold naturally, without rushing into them. Pay attention to whether the other person is as invested in the relationship as you are.

  The Importance of Discernment

Empaths tend to trust easily and give a lot in relationships. This makes discernment even more critical. Manipulators know how to exploit your giving nature, so take your time to really get to know someone. Check in with trusted friends for their perspectives, as they might notice red flags that you miss.

  Balancing Spirituality and Reality

Being an empath often means you're spiritually attuned, receiving messages and guidance from the other side. However, this can sometimes make it harder to see the true intentions of people in the physical world. Prioritise your inner messages and be cautious about whom you share your empathetic gifts with.

  Final Thoughts

Dating as an empath can be a double-edged sword. Your ability to connect deeply is a beautiful gift, but it requires careful discernment to avoid being taken advantage of. Recognise your worth, embrace your empathetic nature, and be mindful of the intentions of those you let into your life. With the right balance, you can find a fulfilling and genuine love that honors your true self.

#EmpathDating #EmpathJourney #FindingLove #DatingAdvice #EmpathLife #RelationshipGoals #LoveAndEmpathy #NarcissistAwareness #SelfDiscovery #HealthyRelationships #SpiritualGrowth #EmpathProblems #EmotionalIntelligence #DatingChallenges #LoveWisdom

So, you've got this tug-of-war going on between wanting to chill with yourself and nature, and dealing with the whole daily grind, right? How do you even make those two worlds talk to each other? And then there's the whole spirituality thing - how do you even bring that into your everyday life?
It's like living the "meta" life, you know? Being all holistic and stuff. But here's the kicker - it kinda sets you apart from the crowd, which sometimes means you end up pulling away because you just don't vibe with everyone else. Making a dent in the universe? Yeah, it's a big deal. But it can also make you feel like you're on a solo journey because you see things differently, think differently, feel differently... and it's like, "Does anyone else even get it?"

You're all about truth, right? But that can stir up some drama because your truths might not match up with everyone else's. And then there are these pesky patterns, beliefs, and life stuff that get in the way, throwing you off course. Feeling small and invisible might seem safe, but it's actually driving you further from who you really are. Deep down, you know there's this version of you that's dying to break free, but you've kinda forgotten how to be that person. So, instead, you end up doing what's expected, and surprise, surprise, you're not feeling any happier.

Find that inner child, take its hand, and let your soul be your compass (not your ego). Sure, fears and doubts might creep in, but let them be your guides as you listen to the call of your real potential.
I've chatted with tons of folks who are stuck in the past, or who are carrying around old wounds like badges of honor. But hey, you can totally tap into your full potential. It's just a matter of reminding yourself, believing in your awesomeness, and not letting anyone else's words define you. Don't get trapped in your own head, and definitely don't keep spirituality in some separate box labeled "not for everyday life."
You crave that nature vibe where you can just chill and be yourself, but then you're back in the thick of it with all this heavy, superficial energy swirling around. The thing is, these two worlds don't have to stay separate. They need to meet in the middle to make a real difference. And guess what? Holistic people like you? You're wired to see through all the fakeness and manipulation in the world. So, why settle for that energy drain? 
Connect with your tribe, find your peeps who get it, and make your mark on the world together. It's time to blend the spiritual with the everyday and rock this life with all the authenticity and purpose you've got.

​#InnerChildJourney #SoulGuidance #EmbraceAuthenticity #SpiritualIntegration #HolisticLiving #BreakFreeFromExpectations #RealizeYourPotential #NoMoreIsolation #FindYourTribe #LiveYourTruth #BalanceAndHarmony #NatureHeals #EgoAwareness #SpiritualGrowth #EmbraceYourUniqueness

 

 **A Ghostly Encounter: The Day That Changed My Future**

One day, after questioning why I couldn't see spirits and whether they were real, I set off to photograph a rural Helensville property to let. As a property manager at the time, I had no idea that what happened that day would change the course of my future.

It wasn't until I got home and started uploading the images for rental that I noticed the figure of a Māori woman standing behind a fence in one of the photos. "I thought, hang on. There was no one standing there when I took the photo," I recalled, feeling a chill run down my spine.

Curious and a bit unsettled, I contacted a friend who had accompanied me to the property and asked if she had seen anyone there. She confirmed that she had not; the land behind the fence had been empty.

This experience left me pondering the unseen and the unknown. As society becomes more open to discussing the supernatural, stories like this highlight the enduring mystery and intrigue surrounding ghostly encounters.

Have you ever experienced something similar? Share your stories and let's explore the mysteries together.
​#GhostlyEncounter #Supernatural #Mystery #SpiritualAwakening #Haunted #Paranormal #GhostStories #SupernaturalSightings #HauntedPlaces #UnexplainedPhenomena #PropertyManager #MaoriSpirit #RuralMystery #OpenMind #SpiritualJourney

What is the update for my Earth Signs.
Firstly, Rest your Mind and Body,
Set new intentions if the old ones have not come into fruition and make steps towards your goals.
This is an important time to focus on new contracts/relationships
  (Love is all around us) This song is running through my mind. This means to me that you are advised to do what you love, be around people you love so you attract more of the good stuff.
Earth signs are often community orientated, and that sense of community is important to you. This is a time when you may feel you want to do more for others. Therefore, it is important as you step into new things that you have the balance and rest of your mind, body, and soul.
 The Universe loves to surprise so enjoy life without the continued asking for more. The Universe knows and has heard you.
This is a time when your achievements will be highlighted. It is about connection.  Reconnect with those people who can help you move forward as this is a time to make solid connections.
The next quarter of the year is going to be a good one for Earth signs!
So my Earth Signs! This is time to step up into leadership roles, manifest your dreams and connect or reconnect with friends and your community. If you are a manager, it is time to boss up and attract those good people who will support you.
The next few months are a great time for personal development (check out Transform your Psyche on my site- yes blatant marketing)
#earthday #MayUpdate #MindBodyRest #IntentionSetting #NewBeginnings #LoveIsAllAround #CommunityConnection #AchievementHighlight #PositiveDevelopments #LeadershipRoles #Manifestation #PersonalGrowth #SelfDevelopment

April 20 - May 20

Get ready, everyone seems to be shedding something this month.
Have you ever felt like you're in the midst of finding your place, whether it's a new job, a home, or simply seeking that feeling of belonging? The energy of movement is palpable.
In the midst of all this, blessings are coming your way. This change in your life will bring the recognition you've been longing for.
Feeling a bit off lately? It's worth exploring. There's a sense of energy exchange in the air, prompting you to share your hidden talents and gifts, which may have been overlooked until now. Watch them bloom this month.
As we dive into March, remember not to take things too seriously. The universe is nudging you to have more fun and try something new, as this is often where manifestation begins.
If you've been feeling a sense of direction but aren't sure how to implement it, now's the time to take action. Whether it's changing your work or seeking new opportunities and friendships, the universe encourages you to start making moves.
The collective energy is shifting, urging you to let go of what no longer serves you and embrace transformation. It's about taking that leap into the unknown and stepping into a life of freedom.
It's time to pick a new path, learn from past experiences, and trust that history won't repeat itself. If you feel unsure about a decision, take your time and trust that the right choice will reveal itself in due time.
Love is in the air, whether you're seeking it or already in a relationship. Open your heart to joy and be receptive to love's embrace.
As exhaustion sets in for many, remember that it's a crucial time for manifestation. Stay strong in your beliefs and keep pushing forward, knowing that blessings await those who persevere.
In the midst of it all, March promises special moments and great things. Embrace the blessings that come your way, and above all, stay true to yourself.

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#MarcnManifestations #EnergyShifts #NewBeginningsAhead #BelieveInYourself #StayTrueToYou#MayManifestations #EnergyShifts #NewBeginningsAhead #BelieveInYourself #StayTrueToYou