​If you do not trust, are you missing out on life?
Over the past couple of years, our ability to trust has been somewhat challenging and noticeable as a community.   However, lack of trust has always been within us, that inner voice triggered by actions that result in us pulling away from people as we no longer trust them because they hurt us.
 
The definition of trust is to be fully engaged in life, allowing our hearts to open with love and joy.
How do you trust again when you are just coping with life?
If we can relax a little, reduce our anxiety and be mindful we start to trust again.  This is easier said than done right!  How can you trust when your life is an endless struggle and your mind is constantly racing, that mind talk, the lack of money, joy or love, health our failures and conflict? 
Our instinct is to control our life, this is done because we tell ourselves that nothing bad will happen if we can control every aspect of life.  A change in our life, big or small makes us feel vulnerable as we have lost control of what we were trying to maintain.  
Well reader, welcome to life.   We cannot control anything in life.  Why would you want to? You would end up living a very mundane and boring life. It is our internal wiring that tells us, when life is out of control, that we will not cope. We have lost our control so now we have self-doubt, self-judgement and we become critical of our life, the life we thought we had control of. 
How do we welcome a positive attitude to life when life is ever-changing? 
How do you step into relationships with trust, without thinking that it will be like the last disaster relationship?
 
So many questions about trust, right?
  Even though life has thrown unexpected, pleasant, or unpleasant circumstances and surprises just know life is not against you, nor is it for you, it is simply with us.  If you start the day with an attitude of anxiety everything you feel in that day will justify your feelings. The people you look out for will make you feel nervous and your day, as you expected, will be stressful.
Trust radiates trust.  Learn to observe your fears with care and kindness, listen to the way your body reacts to situations when you are in fear.  This is mindfulness.  Step into the fear as this will welcome trust. 
 
How do you step in to trust when you have been hurt in the past?
 
Fake it until you make it!  If you have had your heart broken and swear you will never enter another relationship you cause yourself unnecessary anxiety.  You are not controlling your life.  When you act as if you trust in situations, you soon will control your life.  To hide behind a wall of protection will do you no favours. Acceptance builds trust, doesn't it? Think about it.  When you walk into a room of unknown people, and you step in with confidence, kindness, and care (even if you are faking it) you are building trust.
Trusting is not giving up or giving in that is your conditioned mind telling you that. The need to control. When you choose to trust in the day you are in acceptance of what will unfold and the more, we trust and enter our day with empathy and acceptance we are living a meditative life.
 If your day turns out to be disturbing or difficult and you can experience it as a gift and welcome it with an understanding that these events are a message to us which will reveal what we need to pay attention to.  You will soon see things differently as you take responsibility and not blame the outside world for your lack of trust.   
Reframe your demons and enjoy life and what it brings you.  How to do this will be in the next blog.
 
 
 

Your subconscious mind has many beliefs, be it around motivation, stress, anxiety or weight loss. You might automatically think: It is impossible to change.
These unconscious thoughts – which are shaped by memories, experiences and expectations – ultimately drive our conscious actions, and we don’t even realize this is happening.

In short, our subconscious sets us up to fail. And that’s true about many of our bad habits – negative self-talk, smoking, overeating – they’re all deeply rooted in unconscious thought.
Whether You Think You Can, or Think You Can’t … You’re Right  How iHenry Ford
Through hypnotherapy, though, we can begin to alter and update these negative assumptions. And that might explain why the research strongly suggests hypnosis works for conditions like chronic pain, substance abuse and weight loss.
By training our minds to think differently about challenges and goals, we can eliminate the negative thoughts that so frequently lead to self-sabotage.

Simply stated, hypnosis empowers you to change your unconscious thoughts. And that, in a nutshell, is how hypnotherapy works.

This is a special day, 22 February 2022 (222222)- A new portal opens.
This is the time for big picture thinking. During this portal, your psychic ability will be heightened. Moving forward it is wise to do development as the period moving forward is huge. What you think will manifest. You may be starting to think outside of the box and those preconceived ideas have changed and you are now starting to see you can manifest something quite different.
This is a healing portal as it leads you to an epiphany. Open yourself to your higher self. Very soon you will get a vision as to what direction you will be going in.
With change comes vulnerability. Being vulnerable and authentic is your power. No need to put up a brave front. It is now time to allow yourself to be open. To speak from the heart. You are now removing your psychic guard allowing a new cycle to open.
Vulnerability is the hardest gift to share however in development vulnerability is vital to achieving your highest self. In this space, is where the strong bonds occur, the healing starts and connections begin.
Being vulnerable means you accept yourself for who you are, as being your true self means you are authentic which allows you to discover a huge amount of spiritual connection. You soon start to hear the messages you need to know to gain greatness. People are also attracted to this energy you are displaying, your light is now on. This new portal is now an opportunity to be who you truly are.
Often we are told to fake it until we make it wear the mask, but as we go into this new portal it is now an opportunity to reveal your truth your struggles so that you can go through this rebirth. You may find you are seeking help, advice and connecting to other principals to assist. This vulnerable cycle is about releasing the truth allowing yourself to open up to this new power.
You may find you are dreaming. I am not a dreamer but dreams started a few days ago and continue. Write these visions down.
Your image of success may change in this cycle. You may find that you just want to feel free in your life- lighter, happier, not working so hard, healthier and spiritually wiser. Mind, body and soul will be challenged as you balance this new cycle.
This cycle is about shining a light on your achievements. You can see that your past struggles were a gift and you can see how strong you are becoming. This is the time to rest and restore, be present with your feelings as you move forward. Another awakening ahead. As your guides, angels, spirit, stand around you know they stand with you giving you a hug when you feel you are alone.
To recap, ask for what you want and act in faith it will come about. This cycle is about change that brings victory. Get to know your spirit team. As you are being guided in this next phase. It is not your thoughts, the messages are spiritual downloads. If you have been stuck in your actions. Look out!
​Spiritual Development has started so check in with that if you live in Auckland.
Channelled messages from Spirit for 222222 – Blessings Brigid x

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Happy Chinese New Year and welcome to the new moon in Leo on the 16th of February is going to be so interesting, to say the least!
 
The theme for 2022 is vision, after 2021's theme of reinvent.
What does that mean?
Manifestation will organically unfold this year, February being the start of the catalyst for action in all aspects of your life. The nice thing is we do not have to try too hard to make things happen, we will almost feel spiritually pushed to do things without much effort.  Nice right!
 
Draw a line on 2021 and even January 2022 as we work on the focus from February 2022
 
With the Chinese sign of Tiger and the Leo Moon, what a combination!  This is a time to think about what inspires you.   This powerful cycle of manifestation will truly have an impact on you.
 
I know a lot of you have been feeling quite lost for a while and some have been treading water. The thing is you have managed to move into a phase where you will be able to identify why you had to do the hard work.  In this phase, you will feel a change in your energy.
Briefly, how will the February energy impact your star sign?
 
Aries- What or who is draining your energy?  Let it go, you do not need it in your life.  This is affecting you moving forward.
 
Taurus - Future planning is important for you this month.  What have you put off lately?  Do not let fear stop you from completing this cycle.  Put your plans in place today.
 
Gemini- February will hit you with overwhelming power. You will have a clear realisation of what you have been wanting to achieve. Then you will complete it.
 
Cancer- That specific problem that has been getting you down will conclude this month. You will feel so much better this month.
 
Leo- You will find this month you will feel different about things and the people around you. Your transformation starts as you feel like changing things around you, do not be surprised if you start moving furniture around your house or clearing out that garage.  Go with the flow.
 
Virgo- This month will bring out the best in you. A long time coming right!  Little misunderstandings and hiccups will be settled this month.
 
Libra - You have been waiting for your moment for a long time now.  You will finally feel the balance you have been waiting for so long. You will feel inspired this month. Success will happen for you this month.
 
Scorpio - This month you will feel like making changes in your life. Your life needs more colour and lightness to assist this new change. I feel fewer limitations for you this month. Ignore other people’s opinions and go for it.
 
Sagittarius - You will feel like you are not being taken seriously this month.  You will be attracting strong energies around you this month, because of your playful nature, you will find people may try to make you conform. Give yourself space and do not be sucked into the negativity.
 
Capricorn- This is the beginning of something new.  This is an important month for you.  Spirituality is the key for you this month that will lead to an important moment for you. You will have a powerful revelation.   Be prepared to be surprised!
 
Aquarius- Stop worrying! Your emotions have put you out of balance.  This month those worries will come to an end.
 
Pisces- You will feel more in control and connected this month.  Mid-February is an important beginning for you as you understand yourself fully. You must be ready for this new phase.  Step into this new power and inspiration and see a new phase present itself to you.
 
 
It is important not to overwhelm this energy with too many wishes. Break them down to one thing at a time. There is plenty of time to get what you want.
As your dreams come to fruition you will notice the quality of the wishes attracts great things around you.
As the theme this year is Vision, this will allow the right people to come into your life to help. Good, bad, and ugly, remember that mirror I always talk about. Understand the delivery of the messages and the reflections.  If you do not understand what you see in the mirror, book a reading!
 
What about Love? I hear the Single people ask.   Well, 2022 is about connecting and togetherness, so if you are single, you may not be by the end of the year. If you are not single, you may feel more connected to your partner than you have for a while.
 
To succeed in this month.
Once again, notice the signs, listen/see what is being shown to you. 
Ask your guides to show you signs to ensure you are in the correct direction.
Do more Spiritual work this year (workshops are now on if you are interested)
To make your vision manifest you need to add action.  So, make sure you know what you want and go for it. 
 
Finally, it is important (it is vital) to be authentic and trust yourself, even if people around you are not being 'all that'
Remind yourself of your power, call in that inner Tiger as although it sounds like a brilliant year, we are still having to live in our current environment, and it can be difficult to remain positive in our dreams when we are trying to soar like eagles whilst being surrounded by turkeys.  Hold your tenacity and believe thou shall be done.
 
If you are a tarot person, my black cat tarot card would be The Hanged Man for this month, in reverse, so it is upright. Meaning looking at situations with rose coloured glasses, that different perspective is often needed.  Do not let history repeat itself this year.
Cut those threads (See my book Transform Your Psyche, your Journal to Self Discovery) if you are still rethinking the past.
 
So, as we step into February.  Listen to your instincts, gut, heart. Make sure you put yourself first and you will attract so much more for yourself.
This is a love cycle. So, ensure you open that heart up to attract. This could be new love, friends, career, business, finances. Do not waste your time with people who do not get you.   They will eventually but it may be too late.
If you are not happy with any situation in your life, do one thing a day to change it.
 
Feb 2022, 2222 is about your creativity.  Whether you are an artist or builder, this is energy for creating what your heart wants.   It is such a magical time so grab your Unicorn and soar with that eagle.
Spiritual Disclaimer!
Free will - I always remind my clients that you have free will. If you are conditioned to be negative, well guess what?  What a waste of a great month. Try and do something to find your light.  -Brigid

Do you often feel deeply tuned in to the feelings of people around you? Do crowds make you uncomfortable? Would you (or the people closest to you) describe yourself as a sensitive person?

If so, you may be an empath.
Dr. Judith Orloff, a pioneer in the field, describes empaths as those who absorb the world’s joys and stresses like “emotional sponges.”
In her book “The Empath’s Survival Guide: Life Strategies for Sensitive People,” she suggests empaths lack the filters most people use to protect themselves from excessive stimulation and can’t help but take in surrounding emotions and energies, whether they’re good, bad, or something in between.
Kim Egel, a San Diego-based therapist, expands this further: “Empaths have a higher sensitivity to outside stimuli such as sounds, big personalities, and hectic environments. They bring a lot of heart and care to the world and feel things very deeply.”
Sounds familiar? Here are 15 other signs you might be an empath.
You have a lot of empathyThe term empath comes from empathy, which is the ability to understand the experiences and feelings of others outside of your own perspective.
Say your friend just lost their dog of 15 years. Empathy is what allows you to understand the level of pain she’s going through, even if you’ve never lost a beloved pet.
But as an empath, you take things a step further. You actually sense and feel emotions as if they’re part of your own experience. In other words, someone else’s pain and happiness become your pain and happiness.
Closeness and intimacy can overwhelm youEmpaths often find frequent close contact difficult, which can make romantic relationships challenging.
You want to connect and develop a lasting partnership. But spending too much time with someone leads to stress, overwhelm, or worries about losing yourself in the relationship.
You might also notice sensory overload or a “frayed nerves” feeling from too much talking or touching. But when you try to express your need for time alone, you absorb your partner’s hurt feelings and feel even more distressed.
But setting healthy, clear boundaries can help reduce distress, Egel suggests. “You must know how to preserve yourself so you don’t get your energy and emotional reserves swallowed up,” she says.
You have good intuition Ever felt like you have a strong gut reaction to things that feel a bit off? Maybe you pick up on dishonesty easily or just know when something seems like a good (or bad) idea.
This may be your empath trait at work.
Empaths tend to be able to pick up on subtle cues that provide insight into the thoughts of others, “An empath’s intuition can read a person’s energy and assist with healing internal conflict- Brigid Curran, Transform your Psyche, your journal to self-discovery
As an empath, you might put a lot of faith in your instincts when making decisions. Although others might consider you impulsive, you’re actually trusting your intuition to guide you to the choice that feels right for you.
You take comfort in natureAnyone can benefit from spending time in natural settings. But empaths may feel even more drawn to nature and remote areas since natural environments provide a calming space to rest from overwhelming sensations, sounds, and emotions.
You might feel completely at peace when hiking alone in a sunlit forest or watching waves crash against the shore. Even a quiet walk through a garden or an hour sitting under trees may lift your spirits, soothe overstimulation, and help you relax.
You don’t do well in crowded places According to Sueskind, empaths can absorb positive and negative energy just by being in someone’s presence. In crowded or busy places, this sensitivity may seem magnified to the point of being almost unbearable.
Egel agrees, adding that “empaths can be easily overwhelmed by feeling everything more intensely.” If you can easily sense how others feel, you’ll likely have a hard time handling the emotional “noise” from a crowd, or even a smaller group of people, for an extended period of time.
When you’re picking up on negative emotions, energy, or even physical distress from people around you, you might become overwhelmed or physically unwell. As a result, you may feel most comfortable on your own or in the company of just a few people at a time.
You have a hard time not caringAn empath doesn’t just feel for someone — they feel with someone.
Taking in others’ emotions so deeply can make you want to do something about them. “Empaths want to help,” Sueskind says. “But this isn’t always possible, which can disappoint an empath.”
You may find it difficult to watch someone struggle and act on your natural inclination to help ease their distress, even if that means absorbing it yourself.
Caring about the suffering of others isn’t a bad thing, but your concern for another’s difficulties can overshadow your care for yourself. This can factor into compassion fatigue and burnout, so it’s essential to save some energy for yourself.
People tend to tell you their problemsSensitive, empathic people tend to be fantastic listeners. Your loved ones may feel comforted by your support and reach out to you first whenever they experience difficulty.
Caring deeply can make it hard to tell people when you approach the point of overwhelm. But it’s important to find a balance. Without boundaries, unchecked kindness and sensitivity can pave the way for “emotion dumps” that may be too much for you to handle at once.
Empaths may also be more vulnerable to manipulation or toxic behaviors. Your earnest desire to help people in distress can leave you unaware of signs of toxicity.
You may have a deeper understanding of the pain fueling their behavior and want to offer support. But it’s important to remember you can’t do much for someone who isn’t ready to change.
You have a high sensitivity to sounds, smells, or sensationsAn empath’s increased sensitivity doesn’t just relate to emotions. There’s a lot of overlap between empaths and people who are highly sensitive, and you might find that you’re also more sensitive to the world around you.
This could mean:

• Fragrances and odors affect you more strongly.
• Jarring sounds and physical sensations may affect you more strongly.
• You prefer to listen to media at low volumes or get information by reading.
• Certain sounds may trigger an emotional response.

You need time to recharge“Heightened sensitivity to other people’s pain can be draining, so empaths may find themselves easily fatigued,” Sueskind says.
Even an overload of positive feelings might exhaust you, so it’s important to take the time you need to reset.
If you can’t escape overwhelming emotions and rest your senses, you’re more likely to experience burnout, which can have a negative impact on well-being.
Needing time alone doesn’t necessarily mean you’re an introvert. Empaths can also be extroverts, or fall anywhere on the spectrum. Maybe people energize you — until you reach that point of overwhelm.
Extroverted empaths may need to take extra care to strike the right balance between spending time with others and restoring their emotional reserves.
You don’t like conflictIf you’re an empath, you likely dread or actively avoid conflict.
Higher sensitivity can make it easier for someone to hurt your feelings. Even offhand remarks might cut more deeply, and you may take criticism more personally.
Arguments and fights can also cause more distress, since you’re not only dealing with your own feelings and reactions. You’re also absorbing the emotions of the others involved. When you want to address everyone’s hurt but don’t know how, even minor disagreements can become harder to cope with.
You often feel like you don’t fit inDespite being highly attuned to the feelings of others, many empaths find it difficult to relate to others.
Others might not understand why you become exhausted and stressed so quickly. You might struggle to understand the emotions and feelings you absorb or feel like you aren’t “normal.” This may lead you to become more private. You might avoid talking about your sensitivities and sharing your intuitions so you feel less out of place.
It’s never easy to feel like you don’t belong, but try to see your ability to deeply empathize with others as something special. It may not be common, but it’s an important part of who you are.
You tend to isolateIsolation can help empaths recover from overwhelm, so completely shutting out the world may seem healing. But prolonged isolation can take a toll on mental health.
There are different types of isolation, and some may offer more restorative benefits than others. Try taking your time alone outdoors when possible and meditate in a quiet park, walk in the rain, take a scenic drive, or garden.
If people drain you easily, consider adding a pet to your life. Empaths may connect to animals more intensely and draw deep comfort from this bond.
You have a hard time setting boundariesBoundaries are important in all relationships.
If you’re an empath, you may struggle to turn off the ability to feel and find it impossible to stop giving, even when you have no energy left. You might believe boundaries suggest you don’t care about your loved ones when the exact opposite is true.
Because the experiences of others have such an intense impact on empaths, boundaries become even more essential. They help you set limits around words or actions that may affect you negatively, allowing you to get your own needs met.
When you start to feel unable to decipher your emotions from those of others, it may be time to explore healthy boundary setting with a therapist.
You see the world in unique waysDeeper emotional understanding can drive your intuition, and you likely pick up on things other people miss or make connection that aren’t clear to anyone else.
But this increased connection to the world can also have drawbacks. Environments that don’t provide much space for emotional expression can dampen your creativity and sensitivity, Egel says, leaving you disinterested, disengaged, and struggling to thrive.
You sometimes find it tough to cope with sensory and emotional overloadIt can be difficult for empaths to protect themselves from taking on other people’s emotions, Sueskind says.
Good self-care practices and healthy boundaries can help insulate you, particularly from negative emotions and energy. But the emotional “noise” of the world can cause significant distress when you lack the tools to manage it.
If you’re struggling to manage overstimulation on your own, and it affects your quality of life or keeps you from relationships and other personal goals, a therapist can help you learn to develop boundaries and identify helpful self-care approaches.
Remember, your needs and emotions are just as important as the ones you pick up in everyone around you.
by Crystal Raypole

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  ​ The electromagnetic energy around us will increase over the next few months.  As the electromagnetic fields increase symptoms most commonly reported include headaches, body pain, lethargy, tinnitus (ringing in the ear), nausea, burning sensation, heart arrhythmia and anxiety.  We will feel surges of this energy in the next few months as we feel the energetic changes.  What this means is a great new dimension is happening, and it has been long-awaited.  
These incredibly tough times are coming to an end and it is now inevitable that change is pending.   This change is both environmental and personal but this time you will feel the energy within yourself.  The electromagnetic field can be seen around the body. There are seven layers to the aura that work on different planes of existence. Some are physical and this can be perceived by a sensitive eye as a whitish light about two inches around the body. Another part of the aura is more etheric and paler in colour which extends about 70cm around the body.  
The energy of the aura can send, receive and store information. It does this with both negative and positive energies and uses our physical body to do this. The negative aspect of this time frame is that your past may present itself to you and to remain positive we mustn't attach to it.  Have you noticed aspects of your past presenting themselves to you?  This could be in thought, dreams or in person. 
In this cycle you will watch the old way of life collapse, often indicated to me by what is happening in big business and government.  We must maintain ourselves whilst evolving through the next magical chapter of our life. It is about aligning with your truth. (Do not worry about others)
Ask yourself, have your values changed in the last few years?  I would say they have as you are an evolving lot.  I know this as through my readings with clients I can see the change/evolution you have been through in the past and present as you prepare for the future as this new chapter presents itself. 
As you reflect on the past and let go you will feel your belief system change.    As a universe, we come together to recreate our new ideals as we evolve into who we are going to be in this next phase. All done unconsciously a lot of the time.     What does this mean?   Well, it means we are coming out of fear and moving towards love.  Love of self and who we are as individuals. Regardless of the energy around us. The Electromagnetic field represents light. Often you hear people say love and light. Well, this is exactly what it means. 
  
Now the homework to get to this positive new space? 
Set your intentions as to what you want to manifest in your life? Any idea what that is?  No?  Then simply ask your higher self to deliver the best for you. 
 As we gather momentum, we will watch a rebirth, not only in our country but also a spiritual rebirth a very big new beginning designed for you.     

This cycle is about truth, it's about freedom. it's about justice, it's very much around belief and very much about cleansing, clearing and shedding the old belief systems. Those old belief systems that you've held for many many years, sometimes your entire lifetime, well it is now time to shed.  This is your last chance to shed them.  You may have even been thinking of the past,  or even dreaming of the past. This is the indicator that it is vital we clear that energy now.   What if I don't, I hear you say?   I talk about the seven-year cycles in my book. Transform your psyche your journal to self-discovery.  We have magical times in our cycles that we must work with to ensure positive outcomes.  This is now the time.
For those who have the book, it is downtime to dust it down and redo the exercises in it as you rediscover this new chapter of your life. Our life is cyclic this is now the end of a very tough seven-year cycle. So it is vital to bounce into 2022 with a new positive outlook, knowing that history will not repeat itself as you are going to ensure that does not happen. 
As 2022 approaches along with the next seven years ensure it works in your favour.  This will be a wonderful time to embrace your new self as you shed the past.  Let go of the old definition of who you were and step into a new paradigm because it's our belief systems that define our future that will define our reality. 

Moving forward will allow you to support higher consciousness and new wisdom and this very high-level frequency of energy are exactly what we need to support this new world.   Watch your intuition and creativity soar. Embrace this newness you will feel, it has been a long time coming. Align yourself with your truth and live that fantastical life you have been longing for.
 End 2021 with a bang and we will regroup in 2022 to work through the new energies.

I have a few copies of Transform your Psyche, your Journal to Self Discovery available for those who are in NZ, overseas it is available on Amazon.
 I am available throughout the holiday period for readings 😊 x
I would like this opportunity to wish you the very very best of 2022 and thank you for your ongoing love and support, it is so magical for me that I have been given the gift to assist you with your life path.  Brigid

November will bring us some ups and downs.  When you think you are at the top of the mountain, a hiccup may occur.   I do not see this as being a major issue for November, however, should it occur, here is how it will unfold. 
When it’s out of your sight it does not mean it won’t happen. If it is not on your mind it does not mean it won’t happen.   I am sounding cryptic right.  ‘IT’ is that wish fulfilment you have been working towards.   It is that thought you have been throwing out to the universe, be it grounded or flexible.
November is a time of rapid creation and rapid destruction so take your time and be patient as you do not know what the big picture will ultimately look like.
I would describe the first part of the month of not seeing a lot happen, this is where you must trust that your goal/dream will unfold as you hit mid-month.   The energy representing the power of creation and destruction this month is going to be vital to growing and changing.  The beginning of the month reminds me of the Temperance and Hangman cards, in tarot.  Gentle slow movements, patience as we as humans will always ask why it is taking so long.   Then mid-month feels like the Tower and Death cards, in Tarot, they present themselves like an eruption and then a strong call to action.    This is where the power to create or change comes to you in a concentrated burst of energy and attention.  Rest assured the whole of November is not like this.  The rest of the month you can be hands-off as you watch the magic unfold in front of you. 
To recap, the beginning part of November is about being patient getting all your ducks in a row and then in the middle of the month you may have feelings of frustration as you try to control what is unfolding.   The final part of this month is an accomplishment. Also, the beginning of the end as well.    Remember the most challenging aspects in your life sometimes means the final leg of the journey.  
 This month find what brings you joy and happiness it is important this month to dig deep spiritually as the world around you remains negative.  What we are wanting is to hold that light.  The energy is about a mid-month opportunity that comes in the form of a big move, a big invitation like marriage or partnership or job opportunity, but it might involve some sort of a displacement for you moving travelling and definitely some sort of a shift.  November is about getting perspective on how you want your life to unfold. 
 It is a time to trust yourself to allow the good news and be present when it arrives. See the hidden blessings understand that it’s good to dream it’s good to push but it’s also important to celebrate where you’re at.
 There is a chance for love this month if you are looking for it. More friendships and partnerships, strengthening of marriages, work partnerships and key relationships.
 Ensure you are getting enough sleep; some may have insomnia nightmares or just not being able to fall asleep.  I have sleep essence if you need it, this has been very helpful for me.
I do not need to remind you of the importance of not taking on other people’s energy, find a way to balance it out and remember there’s nothing wrong with saying I’m tired or can I call you back. This is your environment, so look after it.    So, as we go into November know that it is a powerful time to manifest.  This is your chance to reap the rewards for the hard work that you’ve done.  
I do feel lots of partnership energy. To allow this be sure you are not putting a seed of doubt in your energy, be seen.  If you are not being supported, be it in relationships or work it’s time to talk to somebody about finding your happiness, do not be afraid to step into your power. Maybe it is time to ask for that pay increase!
You have a lot of choices this month make sure that if you’ve been trying to manifest something and you see it coming through that you don’t freak out and overthink it!

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